Sunday, July 18, 2010

What Being Tenacious Means to Me

As a young man, I loved long-distance running. I raced in the 5 kilometers, 2 mile, and the mile. I was dedicated and competitive. However, I had one competitor that I could never beat. He was my age and from a high school nearby, so I raced against him several times a year. Year after year I would lose to him. My freshmen and sophomore year I trained rigorously for the mile. He slaughtered me every time we raced. My junior year I tried again. I lost to him five times that season. My senior year I trained several months prior to the beginning of the season trying to shave seconds off my time. I improved drastically. I excitedly raced him again, but only experienced more heartache. He could not be beat. I remember asking his teammates how he got so good. They would respond, “It is natural talent. He doesn’t train very hard.” I remember being horribly discouraged that all my hard efforts seemed to be meaningless. I had to battled very strong feelings of simply giving up and accepting the fact that he was more talented.

The last race of my senior year, I got up the courage and told myself to try one more time. I had to believe in my dream. At this point, I had lost to him 14 separate times. Never once had I been close to beating him. I gave that race everything I had. To my amazement, I had the closest race of my entire life. I beat him by fractions of a second. I learned more about ambition, courage, and dedication in that one moment than I have ever experienced in my life.

When I think of tenacity I think of the quote given by Winston Churchill,"Never give in. Never give in. Never, never, never, never--in nothing, great or small, large or petty--never give in, except to convictions of honor and good sense. Never yield to force. Never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy."

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Everything Will Work Out for the Best

The cliche phrase of “everything will work out for the best” is arguably inaccurate. The phrase is well intended. It certainly can give someone a moment of comfort when they have experienced a setback, a disappointment, or even a small tragedy. However, it is really not addressing the issue. The issue at hand is the individual is experiencing something undesirable. This undeniable experience is out of their control. It can cause them heartache, loneliness, pain, or even deep grief. But it will all work out for the best...right?

Lets be honest, not everything works out for the best. There are injustices in the world. There are children starving in Africa, there are individuals that will never have the opportunity of marriage, and there are people that will always suffer from crippling ailments. To sum it up, “Life is unfair.” Though for us to fulfill our purpose in life does it need to be fair? No.

What is the purpose in life? Our purpose in life is to prepare to return to God’s presence. While preparing to return to live with God we will experience great joy. Preparing to live with God does not mean we are exempt from opposition, it merely means we are are increasing the probability of experiencing happiness. We need to experience joy and misery to be able to properly prepare to live with God. Lehi taught it best when he said, “there needs to be opposition in all things.” Without opposition we would never grow. We would never develop the needed qualities to be able to return to God's presence. So, though it hurts to say it, “life needs to sometimes suck and it sometime does.” So, next time someone tells you everything will work out for the best. Know that they are wrong, dead wrong. But yet again, they are right if they are making reference to after life. For God will give us our justice.